I’m a single mother of two wonderful boys. I’ve been divorced from their father for eleven years. Since then I’ve been in and out of a lot of bad relationships. My problem now is that we moved into my sister and brother in law's home a year ago and they are very successful self made millionaires. Through trial and error I’ve found that men I’ve dated only see the money. They come to my home to pick me up for a date and it’s like they see money! It’s my sister's money not mine. I’m just blessed to have such a giving and loving family. I’m at a dead end road when it comes to trying to weed out the real men from the fake. Trust me I’ve been fooled recently by a man that told me we were going to be together and he was a cheater. What do I do Steve? I turned 38 this month and I’m thinking about starting my cat collection! Lol, please help me understand what to say or what to look for in a “keeper.” Much love and respect for you and yours.