Dear Morning Show,

Me and my boyfriend have been together for five years now and of course every relationship has it’s up and downs. In my case it’s more downs than ups but I'm one never to give up if there might be true potential. Well during the course of our relationship one of his closets friends approached me on Facebook and I chose to ignore him the first time. Some months go by and he approached me again but this time I responded and we've been inseparable ever since. Now that things are actually in full effect I've fallen deeply for this man. I've started to ignore my own relationship and even worse sometimes not coming home and spending weekends with this man. We've talked about leaving our significant others but that was a one time discussion, so I figured it was just wrong timing. The “I Love You” word recently surfaced and I'm lost on what road I should take. I'm not happy with the person that I'm with nor I'm happy that my secret lover has not made a decision. We are slightly distant now since I mentioned breaking up. What should I do?