Hello Steve, Shirley, Tommy and Carla,

I am a 32 year old female who married at the age of nineteen, my husband was 22. We have been married for almost 13 years and have two sons in private school. We have been separated for six months. My husband is divorcing me but I don’t know why? I am a hardworking teacher and he is a security guard, but I don’t care. I am currently, working on my master’s degree. The real problem is I feel used on occasion when I convince him to have sex with me. After sex I feel cheap because I know he doesn't love me anymore. I can just tell. He just says repeatedly that he does not love me anymore. We get along and we don’t argue but we are not together. What did I do wrong? Why did he leave? Steve help! Have a good day!


Ms. Detroit